Shaz by the Sea

Like many other parents, I struggle with the balance of wanting to do things that make my kids happy, but also giving them limits. I love to see their faces light up when I give them munchkins in the drive through, or a kit kat bar for dessert (that never happens), but at the same time, I don't want to spoil them or promote activities, actions, or behaviors if they aren't helping them. For example, this is a minor one, but the boys love holding on to small objects like coins or dice - and they get really upset when I take them away. I try to minimize their time with them because I know it isn't really doing anything for them. Yet - it isn't hurting them either....so is it a real issue? I guess I could say that I am picking my battles here. See their hands? Full of small objects! At least they've never put anything in their mouths. I lucked out with that one. And lollipops at the parade! :) They are very good listeners. I say, "one hand on the car

Setting the scene here -- turkey in the oven, squash and sweet potatoes already made. I lit an "apple cider" candle from my cousin Jessie, and Cal is asleep in the baby swing. Jim had Conor and Caden outside with him while he was raking the yard. They were playing in the leaves and having so much fun. I hear their little giggles and I had to run outside and take some pictures. Since Cal is asleep, I have a minute to post a few of them. Conor Caden Cal Caden  Conor    Conor Caden

We finally made it to Connor's Farm in Danvers on Monday with my friends Katie and Shayla. I definitely recommend going on a weekday because it wasn't busy at all - however, a lot of the beverage and other refreshment stands weren't open. That was a bummer considering it was super hot out and the boys could've really benefited from more drinks than I packed. Overall though, worth the $10/adult (kids under 2 free). It was so fun! Here are a few of the highlights... Pumpkin Patch Duck Boat Races Baby Animal Farm Apples of our eye! :):) And Cal. Ha! Tractor fun Throwing rocks in the pond And "Jumping Pillows"  Snooze fest on the way home! And bedtime.  What a great day!! Thanks for joining us Katie, Shay, and Baby Anna!! I think it's safe to say that between the fun activities, delicious apple cider donuts and fresh produce and farm stand, we will definitely be back! All for